Why get married if it does not mean anything any more? Why stay married if no one seems to care? Why get married if marriage is no longer between a man and woman. Marriage is between a man and a woman, indeed the way nature had intended it to be.

Recently when I mentioned to a gay and lesbian activist, actually a stated transsexual, that the gay fringe was causing a huge rift between the straight and gay populations, she, he or it? Stated that You really think you have a knack for dividing queer people, don't you? It really is something.

Meaning, that my comment was trying to divide their groupings. Interesting as she, he or it, or whatever seemed to consider my observations were to attack, divide and conquer the gay community. Well, no, yet I understand having studied Machiavellian Theory, Sun Tzu, Carl von Clauswitz, Colonel Boyd, Primate Politics and Guerilla Warfare what it was saying here. And I am sorry if it took it that way.

Indeed my only comment here is that the fringe group, who will violate others rights and break the law to push their agenda, is doing so at the expense of your group and indeed causing the G & L Community to look rather unfit to lead. I suggested mentoring this fringe and even using their abundant energies to propel your agenda, rather than allowing it to create such random animosity that it turns off the silent majority to listen to their reasoning.

So, in actuality one could say that I was helping their cause not hurting it, with relevant issues, observation and advice. You see, if gays and lesbians get married, who cares? Doesnt matter to me one bit. But I just do not see it happening right now or soon if the fringe keeps setting back the voice of reason and a rational call for equal rights under the law. Pointing that fact out is hardly anti-gay, bigotry or homophobic. Consider this in 2006.