This week I want to offer the following tips on how to talk to women: Discover the Big Events in Her Life One sure-fire way to keep a conversation rolling is to discover the big events in her life - the things that are meaningful to her, and which she is anxious to talk about. I call such areas of interest "hot buttons." A hot button is a subject that really interests you and her and that you can talk about for an extended period of time. A hot button can be a lifelong interest, a passing fancy, or a current fascination - whatever turns you on!" Hot buttons can be work, a new job, a hobby, a career goal, an upcoming trip, a sporting activity, new movies playing at the theatre, music, going to concerts, whatever. Finding Her Hot Buttons In conversations with new women you meet, try to find their hot buttons as soon as you can. These strong interests are extremely fertile areas for sustained conversations, particularly if you discover that you share some strong interests. To find her hot buttons, fish around subject areas with ritual questions. When you receive an unusually enthusiastic response, chances are you've hit on a particular interest. Pursue the subject by showing some interest in it. |
